Showing posts with label Grandpa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Grandpa. Show all posts

Potential

The boy did this all by himself using every piece. Forget kindergarten, let's get this kid in an engineering program! One of my grandpas was an architectural engineer so there is that possibility in the genes. Makes me wonder what my parents thought I might become. I know I didn't meet my own expectations. Things change. Really, I see potential in Julian, but my highest hopes are for his character, not his vocation.

Commodities, Cousin-style

Thursday, July 19th~

Is it time to get out of the pork bellies, Juju?
Grandpa, says yes! Sell, Christian, sell!


   My brother-in-law comes in tonight. The kids were pretty laid back today. Joy tackled the last big closet and mom started packing up some of the nicer dishes. I sort of bounced in between the two. And I kept going through all those magazines!

One Day in Bolivar

July 14, 2012~

Kelsey's Bologna- a Bolivar, MO regional treat!


   We're only spending one day in Bolivar with Grandpa Yeargain. I feel bad about that, but we've got a lot to do in Taneyville. Mom did find the time to take him by an assisted living place that might be a good fit for him. He seemed to think it was a nice place and is already talking about Bridget going to live with Aunt Marcia. Of course, there still needs to be a consensus among the other siblings, but I think mom and dad, just having gone through the home health care stuff with the Grandparent Weeks, want Grandpa Yeargain to have an easier, less lonely, time of it. Not to mention how great it would be for him to have medical staff nearby round the clock and not to have to worry about the yard and meals and all that. I actually worked at a similar type place and it's definitely not a nursing home. The people there were pretty happy and had great little social lives and outings. It really changed my mind about what places like that are. Hope it works out, I think Grandpa would enjoy living there.

Here

Thursday, July 12th~

Julian enjoying a nice jog up one of grandpa's runways


   It's a sad occasion, but it's still good to be with family. My Aunt Patricia arrived this morning followed by my brother and his girlfriend, Lori. My sister and niece and nephew have been here since Monday. There's lots to do before the funeral tomorrow. Everyone is just so tired. Well, everyone but the kiddos... =p

Passed

July 11~

   My grandfather peacefully passed  last night. Only my dad was with him, which was as it should be somehow. There's a relief amidst the sadness because it was terrible for grandpa to be without my grandma and he doesn't have to be any more. I cried all morning because I knew when we got to Missouri, I'd need to keep it together. 
   We had a pretty big delay that- for once- wasn't Allegiant's fault. As we were pulling out to the runway, this huge lightning storm hit. We couldn't go back to the gate and we definitely couldn't take off so we sat in the plane for almost 2 hours. Of course, Allegiant wasn't going to offer water or anything to make the wait easier. Still, Julian and I entertained each other and the people across the row too. For such a long time on the plane, he did very well. He's quite the traveler!

This was at the one hour waiting point- still smiling. The older lady in the background was his "best girl" by the time we got to Springfield!



Running Out of Time

from July 10, 2012~

Julian says he's "so sick of black suitcases!" so I guess we better switch to the beat up red one. =p


   I feel like I have so much to do before we leave tomorrow. I guess the one thing that I'm hoping is that packing will be easier as we were just up there and I have a better idea of what we'll need. I also left a few things up there so I don't have to pack as much anyway. 

In more exciting news... Tonight Jason and I are going on a date! We've both been dying to see Moonrise Kingdom so I think we're just going to grab something quick for dinner and hit the theater. We just have to spend a little time alone with each other, it's been too long since we last did.

In sad news, my grandpa probable only has another 24-48 hours. Part of me hopes we can make it to see him one last time. But this last trip up I did get to say my goodbyes. He was mentally clearer then than he is now so I think that it was good that I did so.

Great Explorations

Monday, July 9, 2012~

Playing vet


   Julian and I are headed back up to Missouri this week. My grandfather is passing so it's not going to be a real child-centered, fun week. So today I wanted to take him to Great Explorations today. Of course, there was a huge group from Big Brothers Big Sisters. They all left at lunch time so after that it was a little bit quieter. 
   It's hard to avoid the big groups whether it's summer camps at the park or daycare groups at the children's museums. They have every right to be there and I'm glad the groups they're in take them fun places. I just don't enjoy being around that. I know it sounds snotty, but here's why. The adult to kid ratio is never that great. In the summer, half the helpers seem to be teenaged and often the kids just don't listen to them or the teens are behaving inappropriately for the setting. A lot of groups bring older children to things intended for younger tots. Most of the kids behave alright, but there are always a few that are very aggressive or just grabby. Julian was making me a play lunch in the GE pretend cafeteria. One of the BB, BS kids just came over and started taking things off Juju's tray. Same thing in the little grocery store, an older kid from the same group just took his little shopping cart. There was no manners, no apologies. I think if a parent was with those kids, that would not have happened. At least I hope so!

Coming Home

from Wednesday, June 20th~

Julian is an old pro at flying

We are headed home today. Initially we thought we might end up staying a little longer, but after yesterday's discussion, we definitely are not. Not a great way to end a trip, but that's that. Jonathan came and met us for lunch before we headed to the airport. He somehow got the leg of a road-killed deer tangled up under his car. That provided some gross, but much needed comedy.

So now we're headed back home. It will probably be more than a year before we go back. Julian will be so much more mature. Grandpa will probably be gone. (He was not doing well today at all.) Things will be very changed.

Blessings

from Thursday, June 14th~

Mowing with Granpa

Mom and I continued the sorting process at the house. We did a whole closet and the linens and china cabinets. I don't think my grandmother ever thew out a card anyone gave or sent her! It's a very good reminder to me to be careful not to end up with the same habit. My "collector" nature comes to me through genes on both sides. That's a little scary!

In a little bit we'll pick up Jonathan from the airport. He drove Joy and the kids home to Texas. His plane had issues and had to land in Atlanta so he's delayed a bit. We're meeting dad for dinner while we wait.

Grandpa was pretty alert and with it today. He was mainly interested in getting back into bed for a nap, but we stalled him with some Coca Cola. 

Back home, God gave us a little blessing. Jason got a very unexpected bonus at work. We've been really tight this month so the timing is amazing.

Grandpa

from Wednesday, June 13, 2012~

Julian and my cute niece, Trinity

Finally got over to see Grandpa Weeks. He looks so different from just 6 months ago. He's in pain, he's tired. He is aware, but not himself at all. I never thought I'd miss his curmudgeon-like ways, but what I wouldn't give to hear one of his grouchy retorts now. 

Joy is leaving today. It will be weird without all the kids running around and laughing. Yesterday we went through lots of boxes of old costume  and fashion jewelry my grandmother left. It was fun, but also sad. I don't know how long I will grieve her passing, but it's helped to remember things she wore and just talk about who she was. None of our friends in Florida ever knew her enough to reminisce with me.

Made It

Monday, June 11~


We made it to Missouri! After a delay and some of the worst turbulence I've ever experiences, it felt like an accomplishment to walk out of the Springfield airport! We're spending the night in Bolivar with my mom, Joy and her kids. Felt a little like we were crashing a party, but the cousins are happy to see each other. 
Grandpa Y is not nearly as clear, mentally, as he was in December. His reactions are much slower and he sleeps much of the day. Bridget, on the other hand, is still a spry old gal!

Limited

Monday, April 30th~


   My grandpa is a fly boy, or he was. He still is at heart. He's just been diagnosed with stage 2 bladder cancer. He's 91 so if we're realistic, we know his options are limited and so it his time. What to say at a time like this...

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